Jamie Stodola, MA, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #LMFT-105895
(206) 388-3929
I am passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families grow into who they would like to be by supporting transformation and healing emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually. My hope is for you to recover from the lies or misbeliefs that have been keeping you from living a life of freedom – freedom to be the person God has created you to be, and freedom from any anxiety, depression, or isolation you may be experiencing. With compassion, empathy, and reliance on the Holy Spirit, I will help you discover the freedom, joy, and peace found in Christ.
Newport Beach – Mon & Wed
Tustin – Tue, Thu & Fri
Loma Linda – Wed
Online Counseling –
I offer a non-judgmental space where you can be transparent about the challenges and fears you are experiencing. Sometimes we have messy thoughts and questions to work through. During these times, it’s important to have someone who can help you sort through your circumstances from a biblical perspective. God wants us to grow and use the experiences He has given us to develop our character into His likeness. Through our sessions, I pray that you will gain confidence in the life choices you are making – whether related to relationships, career, or life transitions – because you know your Creator.
My Goal as a Christian Counselor
My goal is for you to have a true understanding and belief of the love of Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit in your life. I want you to know that you are truly worthy of love, and loved by God just for being who He created you to be. My desire is for you to gain better relationships, first with God, then with the people around you.
What I Offer in Christian Counseling
I will meet you where you are and help you grow from there. Together we will discuss your goals for counseling and create a treatment plan to help you make progress in those areas of growth. In subsequent sessions, I will check in with you to see how your week has been and whether anything has come up since the last time we met. I will then check in regarding your agenda for our time together, and provide direction based on previous conversations and goals.
My Approach to Christian Counseling
The Sovereign Lord has given me his words of wisdom, so that I know how to comfort the weary. Morning by morning he wakens me and opens my understanding to his will. – Isaiah 50:4
Only the Word and Holy Spirit working in a person’s heart and mind can really change an individual. Blending the power of the Holy Spirit with professional and spiritual support through CBT principles that align with the Bible, it is possible to drastically transform your life and worldview. By providing the environment and discussion for those desiring to surrender their will to the Lord, I have witnessed significant positive changes in my clients’ lives.
Qualifications & Experience
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with experience working in private practice.
I received my Master’s degree from Saint Mary’s University of Minnesota and completed my licensing training in California working at various community mental health agencies for the underprivileged.
I am trained in the Prepare/Enrich and Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts assessment tools for premarital and married couples. I also have experience providing disruptive event management by responding to crises such as injuries, deaths of co-workers (accidental or medical), lay-offs, robberies, or other unique crises.
My Call to Christian Counseling
When I was growing up, my parents took in foster kids. When I learned about why the kids were with us, I often wondered what would happen if the families had more help.
During college, students often asked me hard questions about life and their relationships.
Following school, I found myself doing several different jobs before deciding to pursue my career in counseling. A common thread to each position was that of helping people. I realized that with each job, my favorite aspects were listening to people, hearing their stories, encouraging them, and providing them with food for thought, direction, or a resource to try.
My decision to be a counselor was definitely God led and an answer to prayer as God provided the right person and conversation at the right time for me to maximize on my education in the area of mental health.
More About Me/On a Personal Note
I like to live a healthy, active life by eating healthy, going hiking, biking, rollerblading, stand-up paddle boarding, snow skiing, and trying other new activities. I’ve always had an interest in learning and meeting new people, and I love to travel. I’ve lived abroad in Argentina and Chile to learn Spanish and teach, and in South Korea to teach English.
Anxiety/Depression
Anxiety and depression often go hand in hand. Together, we will work towards uncovering the root of your anxiety, panic, feelings of helplessness and hopelessness. We will take a close look at your personal story, your past relationships and the roles you have played within those relationships. We will discuss how your past affects your present and examine your lifestyle and the choices you have made, paying close attention at how these affect you today. Looking at the connection between the past and the present will help us uncover possible triggers that bring on your feelings of depression and anxiety. When helpful, I use cognitive behavioral interventions, which are proven to be the most effective tools for learning to cope with ongoing symptoms of anxiety and depression.
Bilingual Counseling (Spanish/English)
As a fluent Spanish speaker, I have 5 years of experience counseling people using the Spanish language. Because I have lived in several Spanish-speaking countries, this helps me relate better with my Spanish-speaking clients.
Life Frustrations
Sometimes, as we do life, we struggle finding purpose or meaning in our lives. This struggle is a part of being a human being, because we hope and hold on to the belief that there is something better. “Does my life have meaning?” “Do I make a difference?” “Do I really matter?” Let me assure you that you do matter, you do make a difference, and your life is valuable. Together, we will tackle these tough questions and explore your heart as you find your worth, purpose, and meaning.
Women’s issues
Unfortunately, as women, hormonal changes and/or imbalances come and go in our lives. Sometimes, these affect us physically and emotionally. If you are dealing with post-partum depression, the aging process, even a lack of self-confidence or self-image, you are not alone! These issues are common to women and it makes a huge difference to have someone you can talk to about these concerns, as well as helping you find and explore natural ways in which to deal with these. Our time together will be a time where we can connect and address your feelings, concerns, or questions, as well as finding practical ways to help you in the process.
Family of Origin
Not enough can be said about the family where we were raised! Those years are such an intricate part of who we are and who we have become. Looking at your family of origin is an important part of the counseling process. We will look at the way you tell your story, the role you played in your earliest years, and how these relate to the roles you play in current relationship with others. As a counselor, I have a passion to uncover truths and to expose secrets that will help you get “unstuck” and allow you to move forward. Where you came from is important, because it will help us understand where you find yourself in the present. Together, we will make a plan that will allow you to break the bonds from the past, and allow you to work toward living the life you want to live, making choices that get you closer to the story you want to live and a future with hope, grace, and forgiveness.
Trauma and Recovery
Sometimes, we find ourselves unable to understand why we act the way we act, why we think the way we think, why we make the choices we make, or why it seems as if insignificant issues become a big deal for no apparent reason. We cannot pinpoint exactly what the cause is for our fear, anxiety, or reactions. We might even begin to wonder if there is something wrong with us. In the counseling office, I will help you explore those hidden places of your heart that you might be unaware of. I will help you look at yourself without judgment and come to a deeper self- awareness and acceptance of the life that you have. Together, you and I will create a safe place for you in the counseling process. In the safety of this relationship, we will talk and explore different situations or circumstances that might be the root cause of your feelings. Sometimes we might use deep-breathing exercises and centering activities that can reduce stress, lower heart rate, and aid in recovering traumatic memories. Once we are aware of the cause, we will begin the healing process for you to mend from those painful memories. There is hope for healing, and great hope for restoration.
Sessions: I offer 53-minute sessions. Sessions can be held more than once per week, weekly, or every other week. Scheduling options are discussed in greater detail during your Risk-Free Initial Session.
Availability (by office location):
- Newport Beach – Monday & Wednesday
- Tustin – Tuesday, Thursday, & Fridays
- Loma Linda – Wednesday
- Online Counseling
Fees: I offer a Risk-Free Initial Session for Individuals, Couples, and Groups looking to pursue counseling with me. Please note that there is a fee for the Risk-Free Initial Session as it is a clinical hour and reimbursable to most insurance companies, but if you choose not to reschedule and continue therapy after the initial session the entire fee for the session will be waived.
Insurance: As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), most insurance companies will reimburse for a portion of my services (as an Out of Network Provider). Please consult with your insurance provider as to whether they specifically cover adolescents, individuals and couples.
Receipts/Statements: In the event you require a printed or digital receipt, I will provide receipts for personal use, insurance reimbursement, Flex Spending Accounts (FSA), and Health Savings Accounts (HSA).
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Testimonials
Jamie Stadola has wonderful insight and compassion that allows you to feel heard, make positive steps forward, and feel safe as you reflect and grow.
Erin santos
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Jamie Stodola is kind and gentle and really knows how to go after what is getting in the way. She takes great care in handling sensitive issues, and she does so with courtesy and respect. I felt dignified and acknowledged throughout the work we accomplished together. I am grateful to have found a reliable and trustworthy ally to assist me in my spiritual challenges.
Jeff L
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Jamie Stadola has a unique ability to bring thoughtful insight from her spiritual background to promote personal growth while still providing a safe space that honors the individuals who have a world view or spiritual convictions different from her own.
Erin santos
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